Kara Francis Coaching serves as a trusted ally in addressing all aspects of your relationship concerns, challenges, and personal growth goals. With a background as a former divorce attorney, combined with personal experience as a divorce survivor and professional expertise as a relationship, marriage, and divorce coach serving clients across the nation, I am committed to empowering you to face your relationship challenges with confidence and clarity while creating a life in harmony with your values, needs, and desires.
I bring extensive experience guiding individuals and couples through every stage of romantic relationships, from preparing for marriage to addressing ongoing challenges within marriage and, when necessary, embracing the opportunity for renewal through divorce. My approach is both compassionate and practical, offering strategies specifically tailored to your individual circumstances, including the essential relationship you have with yourself. Whatever difficulties arise, I am ready to guide you through them, helping you establish a life that is authentically yours. For anyone seeking a divorce coach in California, my support is designed to make the journey forward both manageable and empowering.
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Engaged couples or newlyweds can greatly benefit from taking the time to reflect on their personal goals, emotional needs, and relationship dynamics. This coaching encourages deep self-awareness so you can understand who you are, what you truly value, and how you wish to grow with your partner. By engaging in honest and sometimes difficult conversations, you can explore expectations, boundaries, and dreams together, setting the stage for a committed marriage built on mutual respect, patience, and genuine love. This process prepares you to navigate the complexities of a lifelong partnership with confidence and clarity. Schedule a free Discovery Call with me to learn more!

For people in committed or marital relationships who find themselves feeling unfulfilled, frustrated, or experiencing recurring challenges, this coaching provides a structured opportunity to examine the state of your connection. By carefully evaluating what is working well and what is not, you can gain clarity and insight into the dynamics at play. Together, we design actionable steps to address these challenges, encouraging the development of a relationship that is more trusting, emotionally satisfying, and fully aligned with the love and intimacy you hope to experience. To learn more, schedule a free Discovery Call!

This coaching is designed for anyone considering divorce, taking steps to initiate divorce, or actively experiencing the divorce process. In a safe and confidential environment, you can express your thoughts and emotions without judgment. I serve as both a sounding board and strategic partner to help you evaluate options, solve problems, and create a clear path forward. You will also learn strategies to optimize your mindset, enabling you to manage the process with greater confidence, clarity, and inner calm. Where appropriate, I can connect you with other trusted professionals whose support is aligned with your specific needs and goals. Schedule a free Discovery Call with me to learn more!
As a Relationship Coach, I work with clients across the country who are seeking guidance in marriage, divorce, or rediscovering their self-identity. My professional experience as a divorce attorney, combined with my personal journey through marriage, divorce, and remarriage, allows me to bring a unique perspective to my work. I assist clients in examining challenges, resolving conflicts, and exploring opportunities for transformation. My goal as your Relationship Coach is to empower you to make decisions that reflect your values, feel true to yourself, and enable you to move forward with confidence, clarity, and resilience.
As a coach, I serve as a neutral, supportive sounding board to help you analyze the current state of your marriage, divorce, or life path. We identify what is functioning well and what may be holding you back, and then clarify your values, priorities, and vision for the future. Together, we explore new strategies and perspectives to uncover solutions that allow you to move forward with clarity, confidence, and intentionality.
In the coaching process, we focus on defining specific goals you want to achieve within your marriage, divorce journey, or personal life. After these goals are articulated, we co-create structured action plans designed to help you reach them step by step. I guide you through reflective questions to deepen your self-awareness, helping you explore who you are at your core, what you genuinely want, why these objectives matter to you, and what obstacles or patterns may be keeping you from attaining your desired outcomes.
To learn more about what coaching is (and is not), check out my blog post, “What is a divorce coach?”
Therapy is primarily focused on helping you heal and recover from past experiences, traumas, and challenges so that you can function more effectively in the present moment. If past events, depression, anxiety, or other diagnoses are interfering with your ability to maintain relationships, perform in your career, or take care of yourself, therapy provides the necessary support and strategies to restore stability and well-being.
In contrast, coaching emphasizes examining your present circumstances. It requires you to evaluate what is working well in your life and what is not, and to envision a future that aligns with your deepest goals, desires, and values. Coaching then provides a framework for developing a strategy and action plan to move you toward that ideal future, allowing you to take practical steps that create measurable progress in your life.
One analogy that clearly illustrates the difference between therapy and coaching is to compare the roles of a doctor and a physical trainer. A doctor is consulted when an injury, illness, or condition from the past or present prevents you from functioning at a healthy baseline. A trainer, on the other hand, works with you when you are already functioning well but want to optimize your future in some area, such as improving physical fitness, enhancing nutrition, or preparing for a challenge or competition.
Neither approach is superior; they simply serve different purposes. Many clients benefit from both, as therapy helps them process past experiences while coaching provides guidance on creating and implementing action plans to move forward with confidence and clarity in life.
To learn more about the differences between therapy and divorce coaching, check out my blog post, “What are the differences between therapy and coaching?”
Drawing from my extensive personal and professional experience, I can confidently say that when navigating marriage, divorce, or other significant life changes, investing in support for yourself is highly worthwhile and can be crucial for future success, in whatever form that takes for you. Whether you are engaged and preparing to marry, experiencing challenges in your marriage, or in the midst of a divorce, coaching can provide you with insight into how you are showing up in your relationships, clarify your goals, and help you identify the most effective steps to reach your ideal future.
Coaching is also an excellent way to save time and reduce costs by focusing your energy on the actions that will bring the greatest results. Many people facing divorce rely almost exclusively on their attorney, but this approach often leads to unnecessary expenses and delays. Lawyers are trained to provide legal advice, not guidance regarding personal goals, relationships, finances, or other non-legal matters, and their hourly rates are typically much higher than a coach’s, making this approach less efficient.
By working with a coach, you gain expert support for the non-legal dimensions of your life that are affected by divorce or other transitions. A coach can help you navigate emotional, relational, or financial challenges and can also refer you to trusted specialists for areas outside their scope. This approach ensures you receive the most targeted, cost-effective, and actionable support possible to achieve the results you are seeking.
To learn more about how coaching is a worthy investment for your marriage and/or divorce, check out this blog post!
I offer expert coaching services for those navigating marriage, pre-marriage preparation, or divorce. My approach is tailored to meet each client’s needs, whether you want guidance in planning a healthy marriage, addressing challenges within a marriage, or managing the divorce process.
Divorce Coaching helps you through all phases of divorce, from identifying your goals and envisioning a future you desire, to learning techniques for handling communication and emotions, making aligned choices, and connecting with professionals to support your process. My goal is to help you regain clarity, confidence, and a sense of direction throughout the journey.
Pre-marital coaching focuses on preparing you for a healthy and long-lasting marriage. Topics include effective communication, resolving conflicts, financial management, self-awareness, and understanding expectations in your relationship. This preparation helps couples establish a strong foundation for the years ahead.
To learn more about pre-marital coaching, check out the following blog posts:
At Kara Francis Coaching, marriage prep is designed to help couples fully comprehend each other’s needs, establish realistic expectations, and develop key skills necessary for sustaining a fulfilling and enduring partnership. Sessions cover a range of topics, including communication, intimacy, financial management, self-identity preservation, and conflict resolution. Through this structured preparation, couples gain the knowledge and confidence to launch their marriage on a solid foundation. Individuals looking for a divorce coach in California will find that our approach not only supports long-term relationship success but also provides clarity and empowerment for every step of their shared journey.
Marriage and divorce coaching through Kara Francis is designed to help individuals gain perspective, guidance, and support at every stage of their relationships. Whether you want to strengthen your marriage, manage conflict, or successfully navigate the divorce process, my coaching is tailored to your specific needs and helps you feel more confident, prepared, and empowered.
Kara Francis Coaching offers a uniquely personal and professional approach. As a former divorce lawyer with personal experience of marriage, divorce, and remarriage, I understand the complexities of relationships from multiple perspectives. My coaching provides clarity, actionable strategies, and emotional support, helping clients make informed choices that reflect their authentic selves and long-term goals, no matter how their relationship journey unfolds.
Yes, all divorce and marriage coaching services are available remotely, allowing clients to access expert guidance from anywhere in the country. Whether you are preparing for marriage, experiencing marital challenges, or navigating a divorce, remote coaching provides flexible, convenient, and professional support.
The divorce coaching industry continues to expand as more people look for professional, supportive guidance outside of legal counsel. Divorce can be profoundly stressful, affecting mental health and making it easy to feel lost or unsure about goals, priorities, and what you truly want for your future. Coaching offers a structured way to regain perspective and take intentional steps forward.
A divorce coach provides critical assistance by helping clients navigate the family court process while keeping a clear focus on personal goals. The demand for high-conflict divorce coaching is increasing as it helps individuals manage particularly complicated situations, providing clarity and strategies to achieve their specific objectives with confidence and composure.
As a seasoned Marriage and Divorce coach, I offer guidance through goal-setting on topics ranging from child custody to post-separation abuse and beyond. My approach combines practical strategies, emotional support, and actionable tools that help clients prioritize their needs and live intentionally. Individuals searching for a divorce coach in California can rely on my expertise to navigate the divorce process with clarity, support, and confidence.