
At Kara Francis Coaching, I dedicate myself to being a steadfast partner for individuals and couples seeking guidance, clarity, and growth in their relationships. As a former divorce attorney, someone who has personally navigated divorce, and a professional relationship, marriage, and divorce coach with experience serving clients nationwide, I focus on helping you address the challenges in your romantic life so you can move toward a life that reflects your truest values, intentions, and aspirations.
My experience spans every stage of romantic relationships – from intentional preparation for marriage, to skillful navigation of marital difficulties, and, when needed, stepping into a new chapter through divorce. I offer compassionate support and practical strategies tailored to your situation, with a focus on nurturing the most essential relationship of all: the one you maintain with yourself. Regardless of the obstacles or uncertainties you may face, I am here to guide you through the process, helping you build a life that is genuinely and fully your own.
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For anyone in Washington who are planning to get married or recently united in marriage, it is essential to take this time for meaningful self-reflection. Explore who you are, what you value most, and what you genuinely want for this new chapter of life. At the same time, be prepared to engage in the more challenging conversations with your partner about expectations, priorities, and boundaries. Tackling these discussions early sets the stage for a long-lasting, loving marriage rooted in mutual respect, clear understanding, and shared commitment to growth and happiness.

If you are married or in a long-term committed partnership and are noticing feelings of dissatisfaction, tension, or emotional distance, working together can create meaningful change. We will identify what is working well in your relationship and what patterns may be causing challenges or frustration. With this clarity, we can design a strategic plan that addresses the obstacles in your way, allowing you to cultivate a relationship that is more loving, trusting, and deeply fulfilling for both partners.

For those in Washington who are considering divorce, prepared to move forward, or currently navigating divorce, I offer a safe and welcoming space to be fully seen, heard, and understood. With divorce coaching in Washington, I act as a thinking partner and sounding board, helping you identify solutions to overcome challenges and keep moving forward. I focus on helping you strengthen your mindset to navigate the process with clarity, confidence, and peace, and I can connect you with vetted, trusted professionals who are aligned with your unique situation.
As a Relationship Coach, I partner with clients nationwide to address challenges in marriage, divorce, and personal identity. My background as a divorce attorney, combined with my personal experiences of marriage, divorce, and remarriage, gives me a comprehensive understanding of relationship dynamics and life transitions. I help clients assess their current situations, identify opportunities for growth, and make informed decisions that are consistent with their true selves. My mission is to guide clients toward clarity, confidence, and resilience so they can move forward in a way that feels fully authentic.

Feeling uncertain about which program to choose in Washington? Book a Discovery Call, and we can figure out the best path together.
As a divorce coach in Washington, I provide a safe, neutral, and supportive environment for individuals navigating divorce, marital challenges, or life transitions. I act as a sounding board and thinking partner, helping you evaluate what is working, gain clarity about your priorities, and think creatively to find solutions that allow you to move forward with confidence and peace.
Through divorce coaching in Washington, we define the goals you want to achieve in your marriage, divorce journey, or personal life, and create actionable steps to accomplish them. I ask empowering questions along the way to help you understand WHO you are at your core, WHAT you truly want, WHY these goals are important, and what obstacles may be holding you back.
To learn more about what coaching is (and is not), check out my blog post, “What is a divorce coach?”
Therapy focuses on healing from past experiences and traumas so that you can function more effectively in your current life. This type of support is particularly relevant if you are experiencing symptoms of depression, anxiety, or other mental health challenges that interfere with your ability to manage daily responsibilities, maintain relationships, or care for yourself. Therapy provides guidance, tools, and a structured approach to processing past experiences and regaining stability.
Coaching, on the other hand, emphasizes understanding your present life situation and envisioning a future that aligns with your authentic goals. Coaching involves assessing what is working versus what is not, clarifying priorities, and creating a strategic plan for moving forward. It is an action-oriented approach that helps clients create intentional changes designed to achieve a more fulfilling and aligned life.
A simple analogy to illustrate the distinction is to think of therapy as a doctor and coaching as a physical trainer. A doctor is needed when a past injury or illness is impairing your ability to function at a baseline healthy level, providing treatment and recovery guidance. A trainer, however, works with someone who is already functioning at a baseline level and wants to improve performance, refine routines, or achieve new goals.
Neither profession is inherently better than the other; they simply address different needs. Many of my coaching clients also work with therapists because it is important to both process and heal from past experiences while simultaneously taking proactive steps toward a more empowered future. To learn more about the differences between therapy and divorce coaching, check out my blog post., “What are the differences between therapy and coaching?”
Through years of both personal and professional experience working with individuals navigating marriage, divorce, and other major life transitions, I have seen just how impactful coaching can be. Investing in support for yourself can be a crucial step toward clarity, confidence, and long-term success, whatever form that may take in your life. Coaching provides structured guidance that allows you to gain perspective on your current situation, make intentional choices, and build a path forward that aligns with your values and aspirations.
Whether you are preparing to enter marriage, navigating challenges in your current partnership, or moving through the complexities of divorce, coaching helps you raise awareness about how you are showing up in your life and relationships. It allows you to explore your priorities, clarify your vision for the future, and determine the most effective strategies to reach the outcomes you desire. This reflective process empowers you to make decisions that are grounded in self-knowledge and aligned with your long-term goals.
Coaching can also be an investment in both time and money. Many people facing divorce assume that their lawyer should serve as their primary advisor in all areas of life, but this often leads to unnecessary expenses and less effective guidance. Lawyers are highly trained in legal matters, but they cannot provide advice or strategies related to personal goals, emotional well-being, relationship dynamics, or other non-legal aspects that significantly impact your life.
Additionally, relying solely on a lawyer can be costly because legal fees are typically higher than the investment required for coaching. A coach can help you navigate emotional challenges, clarify your goals, and direct you toward other professionals who specialize in areas such as finances, therapy, or parenting, providing targeted, efficient, and highly relevant support. This ensures that you are addressing every aspect of your life affected by divorce in the most practical and effective way.
To explore in more detail why coaching is a worthwhile investment for your marriage or divorce, check out this blog post!
Kara Francis Coaching delivers personalized divorce and marriage coaching services for individuals seeking guidance at any stage of their relationships. Whether you are engaged, married, or in the process of divorce, I offer coaching designed to provide insight, emotional support, and practical strategies tailored to your unique circumstances.
Divorce coaching with Kara Francis is intended to support clients through each phase of the divorce process. From defining your personal objectives and envisioning the life you want post-divorce, to building a supportive professional team, learning strategies to manage emotions and communication, and making aligned, intentional decisions, my coaching provides structure and clarity. Clients gain a sense of control, perspective, and confidence, ensuring they can navigate divorce thoughtfully and purposefully.
Pre-marital coaching provides couples with a structured approach to preparing for marriage, focusing on the skills and knowledge necessary to create a lasting and fulfilling partnership. Coaching addresses areas including communication, conflict resolution, financial responsibility, self-awareness, and relationship expectations. Through pre-marital coaching, couples can enter marriage with a clearer understanding of themselves, their partner, and the dynamics that contribute to a strong, supportive, and enduring relationship.
To further explore pre-marital coaching, consider these blog posts:
Marriage prep courses with Kara Francis Coaching help couples develop a comprehensive understanding of one another’s needs, set expectations, and gain the skills necessary for maintaining a happy and resilient relationship. We cover topics such as communication, intimacy, financial management, personal identity, and conflict resolution to ensure that couples begin their marriage with clarity, readiness, and the confidence to navigate life together.
Marriage and divorce coaching with Kara Francis provides comprehensive support for individuals at any stage of their relationships. Whether the focus is on strengthening a current marriage, preparing for a new commitment, or managing the challenges and decisions associated with divorce, my coaching is designed to help clients gain clarity, make informed choices, and develop strategies to move forward intentionally. Each coaching plan is customized to address individual circumstances and objectives.
What sets Kara Francis Coaching apart is the depth of professional experience paired with lived experience. As a former divorce attorney who has personally navigated marriage, divorce, and remarriage, I provide clients with a perspective that blends expertise, empathy, and practical guidance. My coaching supports clients in defining priorities, understanding their options, and making choices that are aligned with their authentic selves, helping them feel confident and empowered in their journey.
Yes, Kara Francis Coaching offers remote sessions for divorce and marriage coaching. Clients can access personalized guidance and practical strategies online, receiving support from anywhere across the country. This flexibility allows individuals and couples to integrate coaching into their lives conveniently while benefiting from expert insights and actionable advice.
In Washington, the divorce coaching industry continues to grow as more individuals seek compassionate, non-legal, and objective support during divorce and separation. Divorce can cause significant emotional and mental strain, making it difficult to focus on your personal goals or maintain clarity about what you hope to achieve during and after the process. Residents of Washington increasingly turn to divorce coaching to gain guidance, perspective, and practical strategies to navigate these transitions effectively.
A divorce coach in Washington provides essential support for clients moving through the family court system while helping them maintain perspective on both current needs and future ambitions. High-conflict divorce coaching is particularly valuable in Washington for clients dealing with complex interactions, helping them gain clarity, stay focused on their personal goals, and make thoughtful decisions during the process.
As a seasoned Marriage & Divorce coach in Washington, I assist clients through goal-setting on issues such as child custody, post-separation abuse, co-parenting, and more. Alongside this structured guidance, I provide practical advice to help clients navigate divorce successfully, build resilience, and create a life that reflects their values, priorities, and desired outcomes.